Ego also means personality, character, self-image, sense of self, self-opinion, self-worth, and self-esteem. A man’s ego or sense of self is so important to him that he uses everything to defend it and protect it from any impact, including the result of his own mistakes.

When a man’s ego is hurt by his superiors, he has a hard time recovering. Usually, he transfers the aggression to his subordinates or spouses and even to his friends.

If a man’s ego is rubbed by his subordinates or spouse, he punishes the act in such a fierce way that they are; most of the time, not comparable to the damage he has suffered but always in far worse measures. This is what translates into arrogance in the behavior of many men. It makes women and children wonder where the man’s love for them has traveled.

Man is a herd of ego. Understanding this, wives can keep their husbands close to their hearts desire if they can be meek enough to deliberately massage their husbands’ egos on a regular basis. This should not be done mockingly. It should be done as a normal duty. Ultimately, a woman is actually supposed to focus all her attention and desires on her husband. Putting the man as the voluntary master of the woman seems, in my opinion, like a genius way to focus one’s attention and desire on the husband.

There should be no fear of subjugation. Praise moves even the gods to do more for mortals. How much less mortal men? Experience has shown that when men are presented as wonderful, they behave in exactly that way, and when they are presented as rags, they behave in exactly the same way.

In fact, it is the physical, verbal and mental effort of women to demonstrate equality with men that leads to subjugation. Intrinsically, women are superior to men, especially on the spiritual and emotional level. These areas govern the lives of human beings more than the sheer physical superiority of most men.

Men would resist any effort to prove that they are superior to them in the physical and mental sense. But when the upper hand is on the spiritual and emotional level, they don’t even understand exactly what is going on. They don’t have a chance. In fact, they see all the acts of women that enhance their spiritual and emotional capacities and their superiority as a sign that women have given them all the powers. Think of some of the moments when women cry, men’s hearts naturally melt.

It seems to me that a woman would get the most out of her man by establishing him as mentally and physically superior while ruling him where it matters most: with her spiritual and emotional superiority. This means that women would need to improve their spirituality and sharpen their emotional language skills.

It is possible for a woman to sharpen her language skills emotionally and spiritually very easily by reading the best books and applying the principles contained therein. It is the duty and place of every woman to work on her relationship. This is basically what is required here. Many women have mistakenly believed that getting a husband is the end of the journey. Actually, getting a husband is just the beginning of a long story.

The attitudes, character and disposition of men and women in a relationship need continuous improvement. Deliberately looking for what to do to improve and support your spouse best describes marriage, which I recently learned is not a noun but a verb meaning a word that does.

This is a new theory. Let’s share our understanding of it, critique it, review it, and show it’s worthwhile or useless.