An adult experiences orgasm (once aroused) by stimulating the phallus, or erectile sexual organ. The penis and clitoris are anatomically equivalent. The sexual organs (penis and clitoris) have two corpora cavernosa that fill with blood when the mind is occupied with thoughts of an explicitly erotic nature. The type of stimulation that can lead to orgasm is very specific and involves massaging the erectile organ, or more specifically, the blood flow within the phallus. The phallus should be stimulated from arousal to climax by massaging the erectile organ in a steady, steady rhythm.

Regardless of orientation, men reach orgasm through intercourse, masturbation, and fellatio. The stimulation that causes the male orgasm is always very similar. A man’s arousal (in the form of an erection) also gives him a clear indication of the anatomy he wants to stimulate. A man massages the corpora cavernosa, which are inside the shaft of the penis. A penile erection is much more visually obvious and easier to achieve than clitoral tumescence.

There is no prior justification for the female orgasm. Other female animals do not appear to orgasm at any time, and the female orgasm has no role in reproduction. The only one above relates to the male orgasm, which is necessary for reproduction because it triggers the ejaculation of sperm. Male animals use an insertion method to fertilize the egg inside the female’s body.

So the female orgasm can only be logically explained in terms relative to the male orgasm. The same anatomy is involved, the phallus. Female masturbation mimics male thrusting. A woman emulates the male role in intercourse, thrusting with her pelvis and squeezing her buttocks. She lies on her stomach with her hands between her legs because this is the best position to facilitate thrusting and allow her to use her pelvic muscles to squeeze the clitoral organ. She massages the corpora cavernosa within the internal organ of the clitoris.

A man masturbates by holding his erect penis between his fingers and pulling the skin up and down. A woman’s masturbation technique doesn’t feel as explicitly sexual or focused on the genitals. A receptive woman pushes down on her vulva as she thinks of an erotic scenario. It is a very personal and private experience. When a woman stimulates herself, her actions are dictated by subconscious instinct rather than conscious thought.

A receptive woman has little awareness of the specific anatomy she is stimulating. She couldn’t see easily even if she wanted to look. Her focus is on what is going on in her mind. Kinsey reported on the external anatomy, including the clitoral glans and labia that stimulate women. In fact, it is the internal organ of the clitoris that the woman stimulates due to the location of the corpora cavernosa. Push the skin down over the top of the glans. As arousal builds, she presses the tissue on either side of her lips.

Anyone who can orgasm should be able to describe not only the anatomy but also the type of stimulation that leads to orgasm. Most women are unaware of the location and function of the clitoris. Cunnilingus and a vibrator are very different from manual stimulation of the clitoral organ.

Some women say that they rub the clitoral glans itself. Although men masturbate by pulling the skin on the end of the penis back and forth over the glans, this action simultaneously massages the corpora cavernosa within the penile shaft. A similar action on the clitoral glans does not massage the corpora cavernosa within the internal organ, which is key to reaching orgasm.

Hands are the most natural masturbation tool and everything else is a gimmick. The massage movement on the glans penis is similar for both sexes. The main difference is that a woman does not have a shaft to stimulate. Therefore, her technique cannot imitate intercourse as closely as a man’s. A woman uses a hunchback motion to push her vulva against her fingers. Some women rub her vulva against a soft object, such as a stuffed toy or pillow. This type of stimulation is not explicit enough to cause orgasm.

Immediately before reaching orgasm, we can stop stimulating. Just like the penny pushing game at the fair, we are almost there and only a little effort can now bring us to orgasm. Like waiting for a wave to reach us and then riding the wave on the beach, we wait for our climax to come. Once the surge of orgasm begins, we apply firm pressure for the satisfaction of thrusting while we massage our sexual organ and enjoy the pelvic contractions.

We must be able to reliably obtain the stimulation necessary for orgasm. A man can obtain the stimulation of intercourse, regardless of the will of his partner. Male masturbation and fellatio mimic intercourse and involve similar massage stimulation of the penile shaft. All forms of female stimulation by a partner depend on the will of the lover. A woman cannot force anyone, especially a man, to provide any kind of stimulation.

The sensations of being penetrated do not cause orgasm. Orgasm is not achieved by producing in our anatomy. Stimulation of the glans of the prostate causes male ejaculation, but women do not have a prostate. Orgasm is mainly achieved by massaging the blood flow within the erectile organ.

The effectiveness of such a technique depends primarily on… pelvic movements and rhythmic contractions of the large muscles (the gluteal muscles) in the buttocks and of the muscles (mainly the adductors) that lie near the frontal and elongated surfaces. inner thigh. . (Alfredo Kinsey 1953)