So you want to learn how to talk to girls? What makes you think it’s different from talking to your mother? See, this is the biggest problem with most guys. They think that talking to girls should be done in a “special” or “seductive” way. This is wrong, wrong, wrong! This article tells you why…

The reason you think you need to talk to girls differently is because you’re nervous. You see a pretty girl, you get into a conversation, and you immediately think, “she’s fine, I have to get her.” The fact is, there isn’t much you can do to make her attracted to you other than be your natural self. The good news is that most guys DO NOT act like themselves when trying to pick up a girl.

Stay calm and confident, just like when you chat with mom!

Okay, I know it sounds a bit fishy, ​​but think about it. When your mom asks how your day was, you answer with a calm and honest tone. You’re not nervous, you’re just yourself. You don’t stutter, you don’t play with your hair, you don’t touch your face, you don’t lick your lips, you just speak naturally. Take this “mom” technique and apply it to all the other women in your life.

Just make sure you don’t treat the girls you’re trying to seduce too much like your mom!

Be interested!

A lot of guys will tell you that you have to act uninterested to get a girl. There is some truth in that. The idea is to act extremely interested in her, but not too sexually interested. She’ll start to think, “Is this guy naturally interested in the world, or does he really like me? I hope he loves me…” Ask a lot of questions, but let her breathe and she’ll ask you back. A good sign that she is interested is if she answers a lot of questions.

Keep questions above the belt!

Humor, humour, humour!

Don’t be afraid to be silly. So many guys (and girls for that matter) are so focused on being cool and macho. This may work for some, but not all. My personal method of attracting women is to be a confident, happy, and fun guy. The fact that you are reading this article indicates that you are a creative person, so give it a try.

Well, there are many, many, many more tips. A short list of things to think about:

– The news, read it! It leads to many great debates.

– Learn some things in different languages. Really good at flirting with foreign women!

– Make fun of yourself. You want to be cool, so egos are okay, but a holier-than-thou attitude isn’t.