Getting back together with your ex girlfriend can be really impossible for you, now that she already found someone else. She may think that she has lost all hope and that she just has to find someone else too. You have to stop thinking like that and be a man! Don’t let the fact that the love of your life is with someone else ruin your chances, because there still are! It’s not too late; some people even say that time is meaningless when you are in love. It will never be too late to show your love again, but don’t get too excited. You have to do this smoothly; try to make him regret even leaving you and dating someone else. How will you do this?

If you just broke up, don’t talk to her yet. Let her go with her new boyfriend for now. Don’t waste your time threatening her boy. This would give her a negative effect and she would just side with her. Just get out of her way for a couple of weeks or even a month. Do not answer her calls or emails. You can also avoid going to events that both of you are expected to go to. You may be dying to see her now, but you have to control yourself. Your goal is to let him miss you. To keep your mind positive, think that she just got well. You still have a place in her heart. She’s been with you longer than him, you still have a chance.

After a while, try calling her. Just be friendly and know how he’s doing, don’t talk about your failed relationship yet. Have a casual chat with her as friends who haven’t seen each other for a long time. You can tell him that you had a great time with your friends when you went hiking or swimming at the beach. Don’t spend all day talking to her, even if you want to. You have to stop your temptations. Tell him you have to do something; you don’t have to tell him specifically what you’re going to do. Don’t call her every day. You are being too obvious and desperate. She’s with someone else now. Her boyfriend will know you’re making a move to win her back.

If she doesn’t call you for another couple of weeks, you could call her again. Try to invite her to go with you and your mutual friends. Tell him it’s for old times sake. When you see each other, be at your best. Tease her and share some funny stories, but you have to remember that you are with a group of friends. You shouldn’t give all your attention to her; again, doing that would be too obvious.

You could also start casually dating other women. The news could reach her through mutual friends of hers. Make sure dating these other women isn’t serious, or else it would be unfair on the part of the person you’re dating.

These moves can have an impact on your ex girlfriend. He might miss you and think twice about her relationship with her boyfriend. Women tend to compare their current and past relationships. If you do it right, you may be surprised to know that one day your friends will give you the good news that she broke up with her boyfriend, and that will be your cue to start courting her again.