In my articles I spend a lot of time talking about the traits that women find inherently attractive in a man. But another great way to learn what women want is to learn what they DON’T want. And that is exactly what I am going to do in this article. This will help you correct some of your immediate mistakes. keep reading

i can’t get away

This one drives me crazy (don’t worry, I used to make these same mistakes).

Many men get too attached to a woman. This wouldn’t be bad if she was his girlfriend, but most of the time a guy is obsessed with a woman he doesn’t even have.

You need to be able to walk away at any time. If she’s not attracted, she moves on to the next one. Never wait for her. You can’t start thinking “I’ve spent too much time on this one. Just a little more and I’ll be able to get it.”

What this does is warp your perception. This “time investment” belief with a woman makes you think you love her MUCH more than you really do. Every man has experienced this at least once in his life. He falls in love with a woman and suddenly she seems to be the sexiest/cutest and best thing in the world.

Once you’re in this frame of mind, everything you do will seem needy and desperate, which will only make her want to get further away from you.

Be what she says she wants

By now you should know that what women SAY they want is very different from what they really want. Most women will tell you how much they love a man who treats them well and is more sensitive to them. They want a nice guy “who isn’t afraid to be nice”

Does this mean you have to do the opposite? Should you be an idiot and treat her badly?

Of course, no.

But intentionally trying to be the man she says she wants will not generate attraction. Instead, he should look at the type of men he is currently dating and identify his traits. This is what she really wants. Simple as that.