Scolding ladies: reasons why you need to say goodbye to the little things
Everybody hates a scold; and no matter what you do, those frustrating little things are just unavoidable. So whenever you feel like losing your temper, remember all these reasons to rule out the need to blab.
- causes stress
Expanding on petty things is one of the common reasons why we get stressed easily. The emotions and energy used to complain and chatter depletes our strength and weakens our immune system. Stress, especially when it is prolonged, is totally harmful to our health, so we must avoid any situation that could trigger it.
- You’re not right, you’re just angry
In most cases, the sudden influx of strong emotions causes us to lose our sense of rationality. Sometimes we babble about something not because it’s really important, but simply because we’re getting carried away by our emotions. So ladies, think twice before you react to something that doesn’t look or sound right, so you don’t come across as a mindless chatterbox.
- Not only is it ineffective, it also erodes love.
When you stress over something of little value, there’s a good chance you’ll just be ignored. Being ignored leads you to rage, and out of your anger come ugly and hurtful words. You should know that you can never get what you want by constantly repeating what you say. That will just make people mad at you, or worse, hate you. The trick is to start a mindful conversation.
- Annoying only justifies the desire to counter-complain
Complaining about the little things and repeating it over and over again until something happens never helps. Instead, it just opens up a slot for arguments. Again, you can never get what you want by babbling. Anything you say will only sound like gibberish to anyone who hears it, and they most likely won’t listen to you. Address the problem at its root, say it once, and leave no room for counter-complaints.
- Scolding can be more toxic than infidelity
If you think that cheating or physical abuse can only be the reasons for creating a toxic relationship, think again. A nagging wife or girlfriend can equal the two problems mentioned above in toxicity. A woman who stresses over petty things, magnifies them, and frequently chatters is no different from a man who secretly sleeps with another woman.
If someone had told you to stop nagging, listen. Listen before any of your relationships are ruined. Nagging, babbling, chattering, whatever you call it, is a sign of poor communication skills.
