If you want to know how to have sex, the most important skill you need to know is to have confidence in yourself. At first, you may not feel so confident because you may not have known the best way to have sex in the past. But as you practice feeling safe, you’ll soon feel safe and you’ll have discovered the secret to having sex.

There are some total gifts that will tell a girl right away if you are confident in yourself or not. You can’t stutter, break eye contact, or look at everyone but her when you’re talking to her. These are all indications that you don’t believe in yourself or are not confident in your ability to get the girl. Sometimes all it takes to get a girl into bed is to tell her that you like her and that you want to sleep with her. She’ll probably say no at first and maybe keep saying it a few times, but when she sees how confident you are, she might change her mind.

Now this is not going to happen all the time, even if you are confident and believe it will happen. The point is that you keep believing in yourself even if it doesn’t happen once or twice. The key to having sex is maintaining the belief that you can do anything you put your mind to when it comes to picking up women. If you tell a girl that you want to sleep with her and she says no, but her body language says yes, you can feel safe in continuing to believe that she is going home with you. Just as she can tell if she really trusts you or not, you can tell if she likes you or not. And when she is, you can feel her boosting your confidence in your pick-up skills.

Your confidence could convince a girl that she likes you, even if she wouldn’t have liked you otherwise. You can have all the pickup lines in the world and be the smoothest operator, but if you really want to know how to get laid, you need to have the confidence to back up those skills. Belief in yourself is what backs up your abilities and seals the deal. Just go ahead with great confidence and you will surely inherit a reward in the end.