Let’s go straight to this…

So you basically need to wander around your city until you find a girl you think you might like to talk to and then when you approach her directly…

And when you have their attention saying something along the lines of “Excuse me…” then say:

“Sorry, could I borrow your phone for a second please…” while maintaining strong eye contact…

Depending on the effectiveness of your approach (see the three points below), she may or may not hand over her phone, if not just say thanks and walk away.

If he does, pick up the phone and enter your number and call him right away (make sure your phone is charged), once your phone starts ringing take it out and thank the girl and return the phone with a smile.

Now…

The effectiveness of the technique of how to get a girl’s number depends almost solely on the three factors below, it does NOT make sense to get the girl’s number if you do not create some kind of bond with the girl, since she will simply delete yours when she leaves and doesn’t respond to your messages.

1. Assume

This exercise depends almost exclusively on trust, if a girl notices a hint of uncertainty in your eyes, she will feel the inconsistency between your thoughts, words and actions and will miss her. You have to be 100% sure this will work or it WILL NOT work.

So how do you get this unwavering confidence?

practice

The first time you do this it will be a disaster, but no one will die, so try it anyway.

Then, little by little you will improve and confidence will begin to show as you build successful referral experiences.

2. Eye contact

Throughout the exercise, you MUST maintain cool, trusting eye contact with the girl. This is where she will subconsciously look to check your confidence.

But make sure you don’t make the mistake of staring, if she breaks eye contact, you should too. Don’t sound like a psychopath.

3. Rate and seed the date

Once you have her number, it is important that you do the following two things if you want to see her again:

Qualify – You must give him a reason why you want his phone number, otherwise he will just assume you do this with each and every girl, drastically reducing the chance of him dating you.

Seed The Date – She needs to know you’re going to ask her out, otherwise she’ll get your message asking her to do something and think “why can’t she ask me to my face?” Again, be careful not to sound desperate here and maybe just say “oh, I’ll take you to X” or “we should do X”.

Okay, go out there and try your new skill, but remember, now that you know how to get a girl’s number in less than 5 minutes, use this skill ethically.