When we look at happiness we have to start from within and look for the goodness in others. Being happy is a state of mind and is influenced by our attitude and our attitude towards others.

Achieving true happiness and being truly happy simply requires a change in attitude by adopting positive thoughts and rejecting negative thoughts.

What is happiness?

The world is difficult, life is full of problems, people are angry, irritable and negative… What to do with all these thoughts?

Almost everyone thinks of things like this at least once in their life.

Most of the people leave the situation as it is and only a few people really find the ways to improve their lives and achieve happiness.

How do they manage to do it? Or was it just luck?

Let’s try to understand the reason and origin of their success and find ways in which we can be truly happy.

First of all, we must start with our mind.

Consciousness determines being, and these are not just words. All your inner feelings and emotions correspond directly to what is happening to you and your life.

A simple example:

Every morning you go to the bathroom to take a shower or just to wash. What are your first thoughts when you see yourself in front of the mirror? “I’m up early! I want to sleep! I’m going to work again! My face is tired. I’m sick and tired of everything. When will the weekend come? Etc.”

The result:

Irritation, tiredness and dissatisfaction are the result of these thoughts.

All the events of the day will reflect this negative state of mind.

The way to work will be intolerable: endless traffic jams, crowds in the subway and buses, angry people around.

Your work will be boring, your boss – a tyrant, your colleagues tedious, your talents dying every day… At home everything is the same: children, cooking, television… Who wants to live in everything thesis? How can we be really happy if life is like this?

happiness think positive

But there is another way that is simple and direct and can help you face the day with a happy mood and positive thoughts.
It is believed that just as all negative thoughts attract negative ones, all positive thoughts attract more positive ones.

Furthermore, there is an understanding of the fact that a positive field attracts another positive field. And this is exactly what we are talking about.

If you are positive inside, if you are happy to accept the world as it is in its beauty, if you really like your life, all changes will come immediately.

You must first realize that the God you worship did not create you for suffering and pain, but for happiness, creation and society, so that you love and be loved.

Happiness a few simple rules

To be specific, let’s move on to the main rules that will help you change.

Every morning looking in the mirror tell yourself “Dear Pete (Nick, Marry), I love you. Today you look brilliant. Today is your day; you will be a success in everything you do in the name of Love and Good”. Then smile in the mirror and look at yourself for a while to fix this feeling of smiling both inside (how you feel when you smile) and outside (how you look when you smile). Probably, this exercise will not work from the first time, but it will necessarily work.

After that, explain to yourself that all the people you meet today will be polite, all the events that may happen will be good surprises for you.

Of course, you must not forget that everything starts with yourself, a person you do not like will hardly be nice to you, however, if you sincerely think that he is good in his own way and forgive him for being different from the person you wanted him to be, the situation will change.

Happiness to see the good in others

Be open to people, believe in being surrounded only by interesting and kind people, be ready to derive pleasure from your contacts with them, and the world will begin to change for you – you will inevitably realize that a dream “How to be happy” will come true for you.

final words of happiness

Yes, being happy and the general happiness in your life comes from your direct view of the world, it really is that simple.

If you want to be happy you will be, if you don’t you will be. So the next time you feel tired and angry, stop and reflect and see the good in the world and use these positive thoughts to create happiness for yourself and those around you.

We will look at the concept of how to achieve happiness in greater detail in other articles in this series.