There is a lot of information on how to get a girl’s number. It’s a great topic and each guru has their own method of getting numbers smoothly. It’s kind of funny that people get so excited about something so simple, however, it is a very important step in moving from first meeting to date and therefore you need to know how to do it effectively if you ever want to see that blonde bombshell. again.

There are many good methods, such as David DeAngelo’s of “getting her to type her email and then casually mention that she should also type her number.” Then there’s the art of collecting method, in which you write your name on a piece of paper, tear it in two, and hand him both pieces and a pen. No words are needed. He writes his number in the blank and keeps the other one. While these are good approaches, let’s examine what actually happens the moment a woman gives you her number.

What is the purpose of getting your number in the first place? Why would I want to give it to you? The answer is that he wants to meet again. They both know that there won’t be a follow-up meeting without a way to communicate with each other. This is the only role of the number. It is simply a link. She knows it as well as you do. If a woman doesn’t give you her number or gives you a fake number, there’s only one reason for it: she doesn’t want to see you again. Oh! The truth hurts, it sounds.

But let me tell you from personal experience that it is all a matter of time. You have to spend enough time with her flirting and getting her interested so that she wants to see you again. If you ask before she’s fully enthralled, it won’t happen. And all your hopes for more interaction are out the window.

Make sure she’s hooked on you before you ask. Plain and simple. At that point, it’s relatively easy for her to get comfortable giving up the digits. This is how I like to structure it:

-After opening and meeting her, get her to talk a bit.

-Always keep things light, fun and flirty. Accurate her flirting with you, etc.

-Make her laugh, smile and really open up to you. Make sure she touches you first.

-After she touches you, you can feel free to start touching her back in fun and fun ways, not sexual at all.

-When you have enough signs of interest to know that she is really interested in you, this is where you can: (a) suggest a date (don’t ask, suggest) ex. “I’m going to the comedy club this weekend, you should come with me”, “It’s great that you like sports, we should watch a game together” or (b) Say you had fun, but I need to get going.

Suggesting the date at this point is actually a great idea, because once she has accepted that it would be fun, she now has a concrete reason to give you her number. He has to if he wants to continue having fun with you. Once you have agreed that you would like to do that, you can end the interaction by going to (b). (Actually, this should be where you should drop it off to get somewhere else, so save it until you’re ready to part. Keep the first few meetings short and pleasant anyway.) Just let him know you have to go and tell him that you had fun.

This is where my numbers get strategy comes in. You just told her you’re leaving after she’s had so much fun with you. Actually, this should be a disappointment for her. If you don’t mind at least a little bit of this news, you probably don’t care whether or not he gets to see you more. This is not a good sign. She must be attracted to you right now, or there is no reason to get her number. This is what SHOULD be going through his mind right now: “Oh no, I don’t want him to go, it’s so funny. I wonder if I’ll ever see this guy again.” It should almost be like the awkward moment before a first kiss. Now when he asks for her number, you are actually giving him the opportunity to continue the experience that you just shared together. Now it is a positive thing. Now she really wants to give it to you.

So what is the easiest way to apply? Do not ask. Most people these days have cell phones. Just open your cell phone and give it to him. You don’t have to make a big deal out of it. People almost always take what you give them. (Just a silly truth about humans). So now that he’s holding your phone, his brain will do the physical action of picking up the phone and rationalize that he wanted this opportunity to give you his number. Simply put, you most likely know what to do. For questions or concerns, say “Just write your number and I’ll call you later this week.” She will do it.

The advantages of this technique are: you don’t have to ask, you don’t have to have a pencil and paper, and you don’t have to make up an excuse why you want to get her number, she already knows why. and wants the same. One more bonus is that if she’s not sure how to use your phone, you can walk up to her, put an arm around her, and help her with that (but don’t kiss her just yet, even if she wants to, make her wait, hahaha). 😉 Also, you can call his phone on the spot if you want to verify your number. You may or may not want her to have your number right now, but this is an easy way to make sure it’s her real number, not misspelled, etc. Then go on your merry way and let her think of you and start waiting for your call.

Well folks, that’s my advice on the closing number. (The “Romeo technique” so to speak.) Go out and make some women happy.

CJ Romero

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