Getting your boyfriend back is not an easy task. If he thinks I’m going to tell him, like others, that a few quick tips can help you in a day, I’m sorry. This is not the case. In my this article I will focus solely on those solid instructions that take time but create a massive impact.

My instructions will not only help you get your boyfriend back, but also warm the feelings of love in his heart for you.

Let’s start…

The damage has been done

The damage is already done. It would be completely foolish to continue concentrating or arguing about the damage. This will only increase feelings of anger and invite disappointment.

The biggest mistake most girls make when trying to get their boyfriend back is that they focus entirely on the problems. Whenever they get a chance to talk to their boyfriends, they talk only about the troublesome issues that broke up their relationship.

Consequently, this situation keeps increasing the level of the fight and they lose their boyfriends forever.

Damage can be fixed. But it shouldn’t settle when your boyfriend is overwhelmed with negativity. First, you need to dilute the negative feelings of your boyfriend and fill him with positive feelings.

Your positive feelings about yourself and the problems will automatically force you to make amends. He will be willing to be alone with you, as soon as possible.

positive situations

Positive situations are mellifluous for everyone. So, develop positive situations and create an aura of positivity around you if you want to bring your boyfriend back to his knees.

95 percent of the time, when a relationship is ruined, one person remains in a negative state and the other remains in a completely positive state. And, more often than not, the negative person chases the positive person.

If you are reading this article, it means that you are a person who is in a negative state, and your boyfriend is most likely in a positive state. Your boyfriend’s positivity and positive life compel you to pursue him. You miss him more than he misses you.

Your boyfriend has probably lost interest in you, your boyfriend has probably found another girl, or your boyfriend has probably cheated on you emotionally. The reason could be anything. But, all this explains that your boyfriend is in a positive state. He doesn’t care how you feel, and he doesn’t care how much you love him.

He has stopped thinking about you and becoming careless. He’s just focused on a new life, a new girl, and a new success.

Every time he looks at you, you appear to him standing on a broad spectrum of negativity. He doesn’t feel anything for you. In fact, he is happy to have been saved from a drastic relationship. He confesses in front of his friends that you were the biggest mistake of his life, and he will never make this kind of mistake again.

He and his friends use bad language about you and always put you in the spotlight of negativity.

This is harsh, but it is the truth.

And, when some other positive girl walks into his life, he completely forgets about you. The other girl exudes her positive charm about her as much as she can and keeps him under the aura of positivity. He falls in love with her quickly and begins to treat her very well.

When he is always under the aura of positivity, how can you attract him to you with the aura of your negativity?

Have you ever seen a person who has left their positive life and embraced negativity?

The answers to these questions will help you understand that negativity is your biggest enemy. If you remain in the constant state of negativity, you will never attract it. In fact, you will lose your value in his eyes and give him a reason to forget you forever.

Now, the question is, how can you exude positivity? And how can positive situations be developed? Because by now, you must have realized that positivity is immensely important and powerful when it comes to getting your boyfriend back.

The answer is simple: ‘Create a special world!’

Make a list of your 15 favorite activities and consistently take action. Each and every one of your activities should ignite the positive feelings within you and make you feel more optimistic and radiant… This strategy puts you in the light of positivity. You start to enjoy every second of your life and force people, and your boyfriend, to look at you again with positive feelings.

“Set life goals and follow through with passion, try cooking new recipes, join a gym, take dance classes, participate in sports, laugh, increase your social circle, wear a wristwatch, enroll in personal development classes, and work team up. .”

reconnect

This is the hardest part, but very important. Once you win this part, you will get your boyfriend back very easily. He starts thinking about you and he wants to be alone with you as soon as possible.

After a terrible breakup, most girls immediately cut off all communication in anger, or continue to pursue their boyfriend, tearfully trying to win him back, and becoming vulnerable.

These acts backfire and further ruin the relationship. They stifle the feelings of love in his boyfriend’s heart and force him to withdraw from the relationship… They destroy all chances of getting him back and present themselves as emotionally weak and miserable person. They invite terrible pain into every second of their lives and live a life of mediocrity.

Therefore, avoid these kinds of horrible strategies and acts at all costs!

Instead, ‘Offer him friendship.’

“Tell him outright that you don’t want to end this relationship on a terrible note. So, let’s just be friends. You had a great time with him and you value him. You understand that you’re both of different natures, and respect that.”

These types of statements will help you reconnect with him very easily. He will gladly accept your friendship proposal and will appreciate your mature thinking.

Now of course you can adjust the above statement according to your situation. But, remember one thing. Your statement should give you positive feelings. Because your ultimate goal is to make him your friend. You can even give him some praise for influencing his mind and emotions.

This will give you two important benefits.

First, you will present yourself as a positive and different girl.

Secondly, you will always have complete information about his life and other relationships.

These two benefits will help you take the next steps carefully and give you plenty of opportunities to re-engage him. You will have all the time to ignite the feelings of love in his heart again, and you can play your games independently according to the situations.

Aside from all this, understand that men are visual creatures. Your physical presence plays a vital role in influencing their feelings and emotions. You can’t expect to be missed or thought of when there is no love and you too are invisible. These kinds of expectations will only invite frustration into your life…

Therefore, if you want to get your boyfriend back, the best and most important thing you can do is to make him your friend in any way possible. Your physical presence in front of his eyes will automatically gravitate 90 percent of the game in your favor. Because a man listens, speaks and feels through his eyes.

So, “Act like a friend and focus on gaining his attention through your presence and positive activities.”

storm your feelings

After exuding positivity and reconnecting with him, you are now in a very good position. You can easily storm his feelings and warm up the emotions of love in his heart for you. The game is completely in your hands. So, play wise.

When you assault his feelings, you force him to think about you all the time. He falls in love with you again and thinks why he lost such a wonderful girl. He feels sorry, jealous and mean. He tries to get you back into his life in every possible way.

Below are some amazing strategies you can use to stir up his feelings by storm. Apply them, keep your head up and you will see the magic… He will go crazy and beg you to come back to his life. He can even propose to you…

(a) Make a best friend. He plays the game of jealousy. It won’t be easy for him to see you with another guy. And he won’t be sure about your relationship with your friend either. He will keep thinking about you and your friend. This situation will drive him completely crazy. Even if he is currently with another girl, his mind will be caught up in your thoughts. He will probably ask you about your friendship. And if he does, tell him outright that the other guy is your best friend. You don’t need to hide anything… Just have a happy and positive time with your best friend and make the friendship relationship mysterious for your boyfriend. In this way, you will hit your boyfriend’s pride and completely capture his mind and feelings… After a while, your boyfriend will start pointing out your friend’s negative points by being jealous and giving you signs that he is interested in you. . again. His body language, words and actions will clearly show that he now wants you back in his life. But, at this point, don’t act like you’re always there for him. Show him that you are emotionally mature now. Discuss the points from his previous fight and resolve them. After that, if you feel like he has really fallen for you again and you also want him back in your life, then go for it. Make it yours forever.

(b) Make him realize that you are living a better life now than before. Your boyfriend must feel that the floodgates of abundance have opened for you after his departure. And you are living an extremely happy life. This will make him realize those mistakes that he has made throughout the relationship and that have made you shed tears of pain. He will cry over his mistakes and find ways to dilute the conflicts between you and him… This strategy automatically puts you in a dominant position. Also, your happy state attracts him. Because happiness attracts. And it is a universal truth… So, “Smile often, join a new class, meet new people, laugh, show happiness by dressing up, cook for friends, visit art galleries, travel more, and celebrate every moment.”

(c) Use crazy ways to create attraction if you want to get your boyfriend back right away. Turn on her emotional and sexual buttons so she keeps spinning around you like a happy planet… Wear brightly colored dresses, use slow body language, put on a ponytail and present yourself as a desirable lady…

These 3 strategies help you stir up his feelings by storm and keep him connected to you.

So, to get your boyfriend back, apply all these instructions step by step… Not only will you get him back fast, but you will also make him fall in love with you more than you imagined.