It is not uncommon for men who have a small penis to let it take control of their lives out of fear.

The fear of having a small penis usually manifests itself in what is called “Locker Room Syndrome”. Usually at this point in a man’s life, he compares the size of his penis to that of his classmates and can tell that he is smaller than them. It could also be a time when his classmates laugh at him. Situations like this make a man feel very self-conscious about the size of his penis and fear begins to take hold of him.

Sometimes fear is groundless. There are two types of penises from the flaccid-erective point of view. One is the Grow-er and the second is the Show-er. The Grow-er penis can be very small and tiny when flaccid, but it gains enormous size when it becomes erect. The Show-er is usually as large as when flaccid. When the Show-er gets erect, there is not much increase in size.

For men who may be Grow-ers, being in the locker room and noticing Show-ers can seem a bit unnerving and make the man feel smaller. Keep that in mind if he’s ever experienced locker room syndrome.

With the advent of the Internet, more and more people have access to erotica that was not available twenty years ago. A man today can watch erotic movies on the Internet and realize that the size of his penis is much smaller than that of the men who act in these movies. This is something else not to worry too much about. Usually, these actors are hired because of the large size of his penis. The “average” penis size of these men is usually much larger than the norm.

If fear has crept into a man because of the size of his penis, the most important thing is to try to release that fear and move on with your life. Men and women come in all shapes and sizes. Some are tall and some are short. Some have dark hair and some have blonde hair. Some women have large breasts and some women have small breasts. Penises are the same way. Some are crooked; some are fat; some are skinny; some are long; and some are short.

It takes all kinds of everything to make the world dynamic and interesting. In truth, it would be boring if all women were born with large breasts. Boring, because they would all look the same. Many of my friends prefer women with smaller breasts than larger breasts. Everyone has her preferences, of course, but in the end the most important thing is the person (and her personality).

I too had a small penis at one point and let it eat away at me. The dressing room syndrome did not affect me, but I was with a woman who laughed at my size. It was a horrible experience that clouded my social life for a long time. I think of all those years I wasted because I was afraid of what women would say about my penis.

Now that I’m older I don’t live in fear anymore, but I was able to get bigger, so this helped me overcome this phobia. However, I have been losing my hair for years and this used to completely freak me out when I was younger. But since I’m older now, I don’t even think about hair loss anymore. Surprisingly, many women are attracted to a man who is regressing (especially in Europe), as it denotes a man with high testosterone levels. So sometimes maturity and time help us overcome our personal complexes. Accepting yourself is also very important. If you can’t accept yourself, no one else will.

If you have a small penis, you have three basic options:

1) Living in abject fear of the size of your penis and giving up having sex for fear of being rejected.
2) Get over your size and realize that there is more to a man than the size of his penis. Remember, if a woman doesn’t want to go out with you because your penis is small, she’s not worth going out with.
3) Find some mechanism to enlarge the size of your penis. There are many options, from surgery to herbal treatments.

For those interested men, we have written a book about the penis and sexual enhancement – Iron Man Penis – The Russian System. Good luck to all the men in your life and relationships.

To be honest,

George von Neumann