Many teenagers today are becoming very active when it comes to their sex life. Most parents who care about their kids would want to educate them as much as they can, but some still feel a little shy and uncomfortable talking about safe sex with their teens. Just the thought of your children getting old enough to use birth control can be a scary thought, as it is realizing that your boy or girl is really growing up. Even so, it is vital that parents talk to their children so that they are properly oriented and do not suffer unwanted pregnancies or sexually transmitted diseases.

Here’s a simple guide for parents who have no idea how to start “sex talk” with their kids. Remember that this is a means to protect them from making unwise decisions when it comes to relationships, sex, and condoms.

First of all, parents should not assume that their children only buy condoms online or that they have latex condoms comfortably in their pockets. Be the first to educate them, as hearing it from somewhere else where the information might not be accurate could lead to unsafe practices.

As you prepare to have the talk about helping your child choose the best birth control method to the point of selecting the best condoms on the market, make sure you have chosen the perfect time to do it. The topic can also make teens uncomfortable, especially discussing it with their parents. Wait for the moment when both of you are calm. Start by having an open line of communication about everyday events so the teen feels it’s much easier to talk about more important topics like sex. You can read some material from the conference, but don’t give a lecture and just incorporate it into the conversation. There are centers you can approach that can also tell you about the use of condoms and other contraceptive methods.

After choosing the perfect moment, ask for a private conversation. Do it during lunch outside or somewhere away from the rest of the family. Share with the child her point of view regarding sexual activity. He can give you advice on abstinence, but also the option that if you choose to be sexually active, birth control is available. This talk should also be done with the girls, so that they are not left unprotected when the male partner forgets to bring a package. Girls need to know where to buy condoms and also how to use them.